Tuesday, October 27, 2009

Trial by Jury

“I consider trial by jury as the only anchor ever yet imagined by man, by which a government can be held to the principles of its constitution.” - Thomas Jefferson


I was summoned to jury duty for the VERY FIRST time. I reported to duty yesterday and although inconvenienced with child care arrangement, I somewhat enjoyed the experience because it satisfied my curiosity about the process.

I'm not sure how I made it 13 years as a registered voter without a jury duty summons, but I did. I was starting to take it personally, so you can imagine the relief when it was finally MY TIME. :)

I called the night before and reported to the Maricopa County Courthouse Downtown at 8am on Monday morning. The trickiest part of the whole day was locating the stupid free parking lot amidst all of the one way streets. Seriously hate one way streets. Why would ANYONE think that was a great idea for city planning?

I waited in the large jury holding room for almost 90 minutes (reading and listening to my IPOD) until they called my name. Myself and 60 of my fellow community citizens marched to the center of the room and followed the bailiff to meet our judge and the potential case. As I followed the masses through the courthouse, I couldn't help but feel a sense of gratitude for our country's judicial system. Every system has imperfections, but what a blessing it is to live in a free country with an organized court system that allows for a trial by jury, if desired.

Sat myself down on the wooden benches in the courtroom for almost 2 1/2 hours while the judge spoke to us of the case details (homicide) and sifted through members of the potential jury. This was such a unique process to me, because suddenly I was allowed a magnified window into the lives of 59 complete strangers. They became my closest non-acquaintances. I know who is divorced, married, sick, unemployed, financially challenged, suffered death in the family, had children shot, had uncles killed, where they work, where their spouses work, and most importantly where they stand on many major social and cultural issues. As we broke for lunch, I was so intrigued by their lives I wanted to go talk to them about their stories and invite them to dinner. :)

When it came to my turn, they breezed right over my information and focused on Greg. What type of law? How long? Where does he practice? Does he know the other attorney on the jury? And then the judge asked his first name. Which apparently is because the judge was an attorney at Fennemore (Greg's Law Firm) for years and wanted to know whether he knew him. GEEEEEEEEEZ people. Who is the potential juror here? ME or GREG?

Nope. I was not chosen for the jury. I guess they generally choose from the top of the list and I was #59. Although grateful for the day's experience, I was also glad that I didn't have to find emergency child care for Emma for 6 days. And thrilled that I didn't have to listen or SEE gruesome details regarding a homicide.

A HUGE thank you to Bonnie and JJ who watched my daughter all day long as I became fast friends with strangers in my community and completed my civic duty with pride. THANK YOU GUYS!!

“When you go into court, you are putting your fate into the hands of twelve people who weren't smart enough to get out of jury duty” - Norm Crosby

PS - On a complete side note, I rode my new bike for the FIRST time this morning (10 miles) and all I can say is WEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Move over swimming, there's a new favorite in town.

Sunday, October 25, 2009

Our New Babies!!

We are pleased to announce the arrival of our new babies. They cost SIGNIFICANTLY less than our first baby... so we are also pleased with that. And word on the street is - they won't keep us up in the middle of the night OR poop in the bath tub. My kind of babies.
So pumped to be the proud owners of road bikes!! We have been desperately trying to find used bikes for the last 3 months with no success. So, we purchased these new on Saturday morning from Tempe Bike. Got home with them around 12:30pm and by 1:00pm Greg hopped in the saddle and rode 12 miles. Don't ask about his sore bum, because he would love to tell you about it, and I promise you don't want to know. These either makes us official "triathletes in training" or crazies with about $1,000 less in the bank account.

Monday, October 19, 2009

My Fall Fix

No offense to you folks out there who just LOVE yourselves some desert landscape...

But, my preference is lush rolling hills, lined with beautiful trees and thoroughbred horses. Of course my favorite time to view such scenery is in the Fall, when those beautiful trees are spotted with rainbows of Fall colors and the crisp in the air requires a light jacket and warm soup.

For this reason, I grabbed my sister and my daughter and we flew to Kentucky to experience a "true Fall season" - away from cactus and rock. OK, OK - and to see my family.

We had such a wonderful time, it's hard to know where to begin.

So sit back, and enjoy the 478 pictures (give or take a few) from my trip home.

And before the travel log ensues, I have to thank my wonderful husband for sponsoring our trip. Why didn't Greg come you say? Sweet hubby of mine has limited vacation time due to billable hours that SUCK his life away... but was willing to let Emma and I party without him. He's just swell I tell you. Just swell. Thanks sweetheart! WE LOVE YOU!

The Marcums (Sean and Amber) were kind (or crazy!) enough to have us over for dessert on Sunday evening after church. They have three darling kids with #4 on the way and we always love partying it up with them. Emma loved all the attention.

Emma has a fetish with small chairs. She insisted that Grandpa join her. I won't assume or surmise who's bottom fit better into the small surface area.

Cousin Aliya (Matt and Corinda's daughter) is 4 months younger than Emma and they really had a fun time playing. Monday morning the girls chose to wake up Aunt Laura by jumping on her bed. How could you not wake up on the right side of the bed with this face smiling at you?

True or False? Aliya has the infamous "Krebs Eyes".

We took the girls to Keeneland on Monday. Keeneland is Lexington's famous race track (featured in movies such as Seabiscuit and Dreamer). The horses were not racing that day, but we walked around the grounds and said hello to the horses in their stalls.

You will not find prettier (or more expensive) horses around. Absolutely gorgeous animals.

Tuesday we went to Boyd Orchards to get in some pumpkin/fall fever. On the weekends they charge for their activities, but as we went during the week everything was FREE. WOO HOO!


Grandma with the girls. My mom is so cute with the grandkids and they just love her.


Our ward had an activity after church on Sunday, for some unknown reason, Emma felt the need to guard this circle in the middle of the room. She spent at least 20 minutes just standing on the circle and smiling over at our table. In one fateful moment another man stood on her circle and she flipped a lid. How could he not have known this was HER special circle? :)

Her little feet fit perfectly in the little circle. Maybe I should start drawing circle on my tile floor? Think of the hours of fun that could provide?

We coordinate all of our outfits when I visit home. DUH.

My neighborhood goes NUTSO for Halloween. This house was down the street and Emma LOVED to visit and see the scary spider and pumpkins. $10 to the first person who can "I SPY" little Emma peeping.

Aunt Laura and Uncle Glen were kind enough to take Emma to the park. Swings are like smiles. They bring the same joy, wherever you are in the world.

Oh how Emma loves her Unlce Glen (Nen Nen). She probably called his name 4,578 times a day and he answered with joy every single time. What a great uncle. When we are back in Arizona Emma asks to call him at LEAST once a day.

And what would a trip to Kentucky be without a little "food time" with Grandpa?


I'm pretty sure Laura was more scared than Emma...



Music lessons with Grandma. They let her share the bench for awhile, but then kicked her off for more space. They'll be to Carnegie Hall any day.
A "nature walk" with the family.

More pictures from Boyd Orchards... I love this picture because you can see GORGEOUS Kentucky in the background. Just LOVE. MY. HOME. STATE. It was seriously so therapeutic to see green again. Greg always gets nervous when I go to Kentucky, because the two weeks that follow are always filled with longing to move back East.




Ashlee - this one's for you!! :)

At this point in the trip my camera batteries died... although this is the very same camera that we thought was broken. A little flick of my finger at the lens and WALA! The camera was fixed.

Thursday and Friday we took a road trip to Atlanta. I visited my long time friend, Lara (Saville) Dahl and her husband, Greg. She got us comp tickets to see her perform in this orchestra of Mozart's "Magic Flute". It was an opera/ballet performance and it was spectacular! I also got to see Lara's beautiful new home in her gorgeous Peachtree City. They treated my like royalty with waffles for breakfast and homemade pizza for lunch! YUM!! Unfortunately, it was a short trip and we left after less than 24 hours... but quality over quantity is what I always appreciate. Thanks Lara and Greg for a WONDERFUL visit!

Tuesday, October 13, 2009

Cincinnati Chili Recipe

I don't post many recipes on here... because frankly there are not many I make that are good enough to share with the world wide web. However, this recipe ROCKS and brings in Fall like nothin'! In the East we have "Skyline Chili Restaurants" that serve this style of chili. Don't be nervous by looking at some of the interesting ingredients. Once it melts together, it makes an amazing flavor! And let's be honest. Chocolate in anything makes it better.

As I'm in Kentucky right now, the leaves are changing, there is a crisp chill in the air and this amazing chili makes all things right. ENJOY! Without further ado...

Cincinnati Chili Recipe

Ingredients

4 ounces uncooked spaghetti
Cooking spray
8 ounces lean ground turkey (or beef)
1 1/2 cups prechopped onion, divided
1 cup chopped green bell pepper
1 tablespoon bottled minced garlic
1 tablespoon chili powder
2 tablespoons tomato paste
1 teaspoon ground cumin
1 teaspoon dried oregano
1/4 teaspoon ground cinnamon
1/8 teaspoon ground allspice
1/2 cup fat-free, less-sodium chicken broth (I use bullion cubes and water)
1 (15-ounce) can kidney beans, rinsed and drained
1 (14.5-ounce) can diced tomatoes, undrained
2 1/2 tablespoons chopped semisweet chocolate
1/4 teaspoon salt
3/4 cup (3 ounces) shredded sharp cheddar cheese

Preparation
1. Cook pasta according to package directions, omitting salt and fat. Drain; set aside.
2. Heat a pan oven over medium-high heat. Coat pan with cooking spray. Add turkey; cook 3 minutes, stirring to crumble. Add 1 cup onion, bell pepper, and garlic; sauté 3 minutes. Stir in chili powder and next 5 ingredients (through allspice); cook 1 minute. Add broth, beans, and tomatoes; bring to a boil. Cover, reduce heat, and simmer 20 minutes, stirring occasionally. Remove from heat; stir in chocolate and salt. Serve chili over spaghetti; top with remaining 1/2 cup onion and cheese.

Yield
4 servings (serving size: about 1/2 cup spaghetti, 1 1/2 cups chili, 2 tablespoons onion, and 3 tablespoons cheese)

Nutritional Information (for my WW buddies)
Calories:408 Fat:13.8g Fiber:7.9g

Wednesday, October 7, 2009

The Absent Minded Professor

Here's an interesting fact about Tammy you may not know:

I have always wanted to teach at the college level.

I really love teaching. No joke that I campaign for the RS teaching job in every new ward. So much for revelation in callings, I find it works great to picket outside the Bishop's office. Probably something about having all eyes on ME ME ME for 45 WHOLE minutes. :) But, I digress...

I really love teaching and I really love Social Work. Thus, when I began my Masters program in Social Work at ASU, one of my goals was to eventually use this degree to teach at a college level. Granted, I am generally limited to community colleges with only a Masters, but for me that was A-O-K.

Today I was offered a very EXCITING position to teach a beginning social work class at South Mountain Community College. Basically helping new social workers understand their role as "helpers" in the community and learning the basics of working with clients.

It is one class, every Thursday evening from 5:00-7:40 and will be at a location about 5 minutes from my house. The class size will be small and full of working professionals. I am SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO thrilled to have this opportunity!!! I feel that the Lord has blessed our little family in so many ways and this is just one of the many many many many many ways we have felt His love.

Below is a picture of the main building on campus.

I can not complete this post without publicly THANKING my little guardian angel, Sarah! She is already a teacher through South Mountain Community College. I told her I would just LOVE to teach someday and she was kind and thoughtful enough to mention my name to her boss. The boss just happened to be looking for a social work teacher and literally one day later I was in her office completing the new hire paperwork.

Had Sarah not dropped my name, I would not have this opportunity and I am FOREVER grateful to her. She is #1 in my friendship poll this week. Just try and beat her, I dare you.

GO SARAH!

Yea for fulfilled dreams! Now I have to create my syllabus from scratch and figure out what in the HECK I'm supposed to teach these students. Better get rollin'...

Tuesday, October 6, 2009

Emma-isms at 21 months

Our precious daughter is growing up so quickly and is SO MUCH FUN! She has Greg and I laughing every day with something new out of her mouth. Infants are cute for cuddling and snuggling, but I have to say that this stage has been my favorite. I want to bottle her up and keep her this adorable forever. Avoid acne and training bras INDEFINITELY. :)

We decided that the "cooler" weather (below 90) translated to new outdoor toys to keep Emma occupied. I don't believe in buying new things for my child, so to Craigslist I went. Found this sweet slide for $15 - and Emma's elation on this makes it worth millions. She plays on it for 1-2 hours EVERY day.

If you'll note the stuffed animals at the bottom of the slide, you'll see that she prefers pushing her animals down the slide almost as much as she enjoys going down herself.

I found the push bike at a children's consignment store for $5. As Emma plays on her "new" toys, I enjoy sitting on our patio bench and reading my latest book. A few days ago, she hopped up on the bench by me, forced my book shut with her chubby hands and said, "the end".

I took the hint and began playing. Little Miss Thing knows what she wants and knows how to manipulate her parents just beautifully.
After returning home from our fabulous Oregon trip, Emma brought back a little saying from her cousin Ben. Not an hour goes by that I don't hear, "I NEED IT, I NEED IT". The sheer desperation in her pleas has almost convinced me a few times that she just might die if she doesn't play with the toy immediately.

We've begun using our zoo pass again and have been every week for the last month. This annual pass is worth it's weight in gold and we have taken advantage as much as possible. If anyone ever goes, give us a call! Emma is entertained by the animals, but I need my own adult entertainment of womanly chit chat.

Speaking of animals, I went to pick up my SIL Michelle last Saturday night while our boys attended Priesthood Session of General Conference. The last time we were at their house was in August after our New Mexico trip... but as soon as we pulled into the complex, Emma screamed with excitement, "Michelle, Bunnies! Michelle Bunnies!". Jeff and Michelle have two adorable rabbits that Emma adores. I was so impressed that she would recognize the town home community and remember the animals from almost 2 months ago. Their little brains are simply amazing.

There is no question about it. Emma lives a very charmed life and is one lucky girl. For as long as I can remember, she loves the thrill of finding TWO of her blankets to cuddle with. (I have spares around in case one is lost). My reply is always, "You have two blankets? You are so lucky!". She often copies me, but her version of lucky is "yucky".

Now when she sees two of ANYTHING she says:

"Two buses! YUCKY!"

"Two Crackers! YUCKY!"

Two books! YUCKY!"

The other day she even remembered the intersection where we had previously seen two buses, and exclaimed, "two buses! yucky!". No buses were in sight.

As long as she always remembers how blessed and "yucky" she really is, I will be a happy Mom.

Here she is pictured with her friend Whitney from the ward. Emma almost always plays with boys, so it was really cute to see her interact with a little girl. They giggled all morning long.

Our favorite things that Emma says these days are, "HOLD YOU!" when she wants to be held and "Thank you Mommy" after I do just about anything for her. In fact, yesterday I took her to get a flu shot. She handled it like a champ and was most pleased with her shiny band-aid they gave her. All the way home she said, "Thank you Mommy" for taking her to get a flu shot. Pretty amusing. But a great example of her sweet disposition. She really is such a joy to be around.

She is also quite obsessed with the moon. We're not sure if it came from the book "Goodnight Moon" or whether her ball obsession has transferred over. In any case, we walked to the mailbox as a family a few evenings ago and the moon was full and bright. She wanted to get closer and then proclaimed very loudly that she wanted to "hold it". Now almost every evening she asks to go see the moon and then requests to "hold it". How would you explain that to a toddler? We tell her that it's stuck in the sky... and so far that has worked to pacify her inquiries.

Ah yes, and what would an Emma post be without a description of her "dressing habits". I can't put her in loose clothes, because if she has an inch, she will quickly begin undressing. A few mornings ago she promptly took off her pajamas, ripped out her hair rubber band and began reapplying the clothing "her way". This last picture is what she ended up with.

I call this picture - our little "Mermaid Thing". Just check out that smile though, she was pleased as punch with her accomplishment.
I'll be on a blogging hiatus next week while Emma and I take a wonderful trip to Kentucky with my sister Laura. We are so excited to see family, the horses and FALL COLORS!! Greg will be home supporting our travels, so if you have something fun happening in the evenings, give the little guy a call. He'll be Mr. Lonely.

One LAST thing to cram into this exceedingly long post is a DARLING video of Emma counting to 10, singing "Twinkle Twinkle" and her colors song.