Kids are not cheap. Especially ours. We can only get pregnant through invitro fertilization. This little gem of a face cost us a cool $20,000. And worth every penny.

We are currently saving our pennies and dimes for our next IVF attempt. Could be awhile, but we are TRYING. In doing so, we have tightened our budget and recommitted to a new level of frugality. What does that mean? I've gone COUPON CRAZY.
Now before I start, you must know that I was TERRIFIED of coupons and have had MANY reservations about the process. But, as I have learned from other experts, I'm feeling more comfortable and confident and I'm saving LOTS of money.
I've decided to address some of my fears and my solutions. Maybe it will help some of you overcome a hurdle you are experiencing. Coupons are not for everyone, but in these uncertain times, any extra dollar helps. Am I right? Or am I right?
FEAR #1 - Will I have to shop at multiple stores and spend hours a week?
ANSWER #1 - I put a limit to my stores. Some don't, but I have chosen this approach so that I don't go LOOPY or let it consume my life. I shop at ONE grocery store (Fry's or Walmart) and ONE pharmacy (CVS) each week. VERY manageable.

FEAR #2 - We are very healthy eaters and most coupons seem to be for junk food.
ANSWER #2 - I get most of my produce from a FANTASTIC produce co-op (http://02b8ce3.netsolstores.com/). For $15 a week I get all of the produce I need for the week (and then some!). In addition, I have noticed that the coupons really do include some healthy options. I pass up quite a few because of their poor nutritional content... but there are PLENTY for me to use and save money.

FEAR #3 - Will my menu planning be affected?
ANSWER #3 - YES! But believe me...this is a good thing. I used to plan my menu based on what I felt like cooking. Then I would make my LONG list and head to the grocery store. NOW, I look at the sales and the coupons for the week and plan my menu around that. In 2 weeks it has saved me almost $100. I can still do fun meals, but I have altered my starting point.

FEAR #4 - Will I be able to keep everything organized? And will this take over all of my free time?
ANSWER #4 - Thanks so many wonderful women who have "mastered" the art of couponing, we can now link to their resources and save so much time and energy. I don't have any fancy box, I just keep the coupons (not even cut out) each week in manila folders. My favorite website is www.couponmom.com - they literally spell everything out for you. All you have to do is get the paper and they do the rest. They find the deals in the stores (Fry's and WalMart for AZ peeps) and then compare them to the coupons that have been distributed in the newspapers and online. They do ALL the hard part. It takes me about an hour each week to look on their websites, find the corresponding coupons and make my list. Not bad at all. Another fantastic site is www.moneysavingmom.com. I so appreciate all of their hard work.
FEAR #5 - Do I really need to get the newspaper for the coupons and is it worth it?
ANSWER #5 - I have found that the paper is really worth it. We pay $8/month for an AZ Republic subscription and I have used $25 in coupons these last 2 weeks on products that we would NORMALLY buy anyway. Sure, sometimes I have to switch to a brand that is not my normal brand... but I'm cool with that if it saves a few bucks. But a few bucks here and there add up VERY quickly. You do have to be careful that even WITH a coupon, it is still not more expensive than the generic brand. This happens every so often, but most of the time you are coupling a store sale with a coupon, which makes it EXTRA cheap.
GO FRUGAL GO!! It has been a fun game to me and who doesn't LOVE saving money?
I WOULD LOVE ANY ADVICE/TIPS FROM THOSE OF YOU THAT HAVE BEEN DOING THIS MUCH LONGER AND KNOW MORE TRICKS OF THE TRADE!!